I am supposed to be fast asleep at this point but the questions keep me up. It's a million questions, and I have not been able to find the answers to them. Something that has been on my mind for quite some time is about love. As in, what happens when you've been with the same person for years. Is it that the boat should not be rocked considering that it has been sailing smooth? And as a result, we are not to be blamed if one seeks solace outside the relationship?

Another question that flows from the former question is, is flirting a deal breaker in this case? From my limited understanding of the world, relationships that are happy go lucky, survive it because there are secrets kept. Again, do we keep secrets from the other? Or not?